The L Word

Two questions for you today. 

1. How long were you with your sweetheart before you knew you were in love?

2. How long before you/they said "I love you"

(Disclaimer: No, this is not my way of telling you I'm using the "L" word with Mr. New Jersey. Nor, is this a way of me telling you he has used it with me....this is just out of curiosity).


  1. I have only had one serious, long term relationship and to be honest, I don't think I was really love. I think I was in love with the idea of being in love with this great man. But to answer your question, it took 8 months to for me to say the L word. If it was up to him, it would have never happened. lol.

    1. I've found myself worried about that - being in love with the idea of being in love. It's a great feeling and something I enjoy feeling.

      Personally I've never been the first one to say it. I've always waited for him first.

  2. It took my husband and I about 3 months to fall in love and say it. I might have realized it sooner if it didn't freak me out so much. It was clear from the start that he was different than any guy I had ever encountered. Same with me for him.

    1. So far most of the married women who answered (over on FB) have said pretty much the same thing. That they knew right away and that it only took a few months for them to say it.

      It's a totally different type of timeline though when your relationship is long distance from the start and online (mostly).


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